We have exchanged settlement proposals and her L thinks we are too far apart to reach an agreement so they want to break off negotations till the 2 year S date(theirs).
Can you please describe the areas where you two are far apart?
Also the areas where there's general agreement.
Originally Posted By: nit84
IMHO, My W had a plan She wanted OM to move out of OMW house so they could move in together. She has been trying to find OM a job since July. So far to no avail. W waited 2 months to move out after OM did. Not sure why.
Possible. We just don't know. It is W's problem, not yours.
It seems that this A is pretty complicated given that OM has a family and appears not to want to leave his family. I sense that the affair will eventually fizzle out or OM will make the decision to end it if W pushes him to decide between her or OMW. Oftentimes, when there's an A with OM with a family, the woman who he's having an affair with tend to PUSH for a decision and most of the time the OM always falls back on the path of least resistance: his own family and wife.
When was the last time you had a face-to-face encounter with W? In what content did it take place? How wast the interaction?
