Restraining order. When she left, my W filed an ex parte Order of Protection with the court claiming things that either happened long ago (yelling and screaming), exaggerations, or even what I believe are lies. The court automatically hands out these OPs because they want to be careful, even though the defendant has no chance to defend himself in front of a judge.
Three weeks later my W dropped the OP--which showed me she wasn't really serious about the allegations but used it as a tactic to automatically get the kids from me without any legal recourse on my end. Of course I'm mind-reading, but it's hard not to assume this when my W chose not to go in front of a judge to explain why she wanted the OP.
Anyways, her L chose to downgrade the OP to a mutual restraining order against both my W and me, so since 10/15/14 I have had zero contact with my wife in any way, shape, or form, except for FB.
And the boys are suffering for it.
Me: 29 W: 29 S: 7 S: 4 M: 8 BD 10/15/14 (Order of Protection) D filed 10/14 Letting God change my life. Doing the hard work to be the H my W always needed and to be the father my children deserve.
