New here and need to know I'm not crazy

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Sorry sam, but I am going to have to suggest you RUN AWAY from that counselor. He/she must have some serious issues and may be working in the wrong field to actually push anyone away from counseling. An A is not something to sweep under the rug. Your anger should be your first indicator showing you that you DO have issues that need to be addressed. Talking about the A often is probably one of the things fueling your anger as well... But not being open to external input on your M issues will leave you with limited tools to fix what is really wrong.

Please seriously reconsider getting marriage counseling.