At the start of my last thread, I said "let's see if this thread can be peaceful." I won't do that again.
Last thread I found out my family secret, my W promised my son she would stay in our M and be a good mom, then took her promise back, and my W finally showed her very ugly side by screaming and cursing at me during her breakdown.
Today I'm hurting with PMA... still not working full speed... W is asking for help with her living arangement... W threatens getting a lawyer then backtracks and cries that I would be better off without her... I'm close to agreeing with her... and I have GAL tonight with my dad and son.
I'm curious if she's learning something from her last crying speech...
Quote:
She, crying, said something like... "b/c you looked at me so mad and I lashed out. I have all these issues from when I was a little girl. The need to feel cared for... the need to control... All these things. I am so wrong. Everything I've done is wrong. All of this that's happening is my fault. You've done nothing wrong. IC said you are in the driver's seat. I will support anything you want to do. I am wrong. I was telling my dad last night that you are a great man. You would be so better off without me. So better off. I'm so sorry."
I told her no calls or texts unless it's an S11 emergency. She is now calling me. And now she's here unexpectedly and I still feel shaky.
Last edited by HPoirot; 12/09/1406:12 PM.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014
