Originally Posted By: NAJ1964
How am I supposed to measure progress if I go dark?
Is progress measured in time spend together?
Times she contacts me?
Emails to me?

I am unsure of his to gauge any movement if I don't communicate with her.

I am having to sit on my hands to not text or call her. This is very hard for me.

Together 19 years
9 year S
5 year old D
Bomb Dropped - Sept 2014
Affair with OW - Sept 2014
Moved Out - Oct 2014
Status - Separated Dec 2014

PATIENCE is DB101.

This is a marathon not a sprint.

I understand how hard it is and I can only say that
if your goal is speed - you will fail.

TRUST the PROCESS.

Me-70, D37,S36