I don't think we're pretending like it didn't happen at all. We talk about it all the time; our feelings, why it happened, what he can do to make sure it doesn't happen again. It's just that we discuss it on our own terms, without scheduling time to go see a counselor and rehash all the details to someone else. I hope that makes sense. If we weren't doing these things on our own then I would definitely agree with you twinmom about going to mc.
M: 33 H: 45 Married 10 yrs. T: 12 yrs. Kids: 4 yr old and 7 yr old Bomb Drop 8/7/14 OW gone as of 8/21/14
