How do you guys keep stray thoughts from killing your PMA? I can be all sorts of "okay" during the day but at some point some stray thought comes through my head that BF has made this choice and as far as he's concerned OW is the answer to all his problems. Maybe I do or don't have a chance in the future, but it's over. Really over.
My heart sinks and I start to get that panic feeling in my gut.
A simple answer is GAL that keep your mind off of it, but what about when I'm at work and things aren't busy or when I'm sitting in traffic waiting for the light to turn green?
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
