Holidays are coming up and deciding how to handle X-mas.
W and I are still living together and the kids don't know anything has changed between us.
For the last several years we haven't exchanged gifts because there was nothing in particular we wanted and didn't want more clutter.
This year I had thought of a few things to get her that she'd like, but is that a good idea? I wouldn't think of it as a way to get in her good graces, just a nice gift for the holiday.
Not sure what to do here....Ideas?


M-44
W-44
Sons- 11&14
Married- 18
Together- 27
Separation mentioned- 9-29-14
Still together, but not "together"
"if you feel rotten and forgotten,
remember there'll be better days."