Did you ask an attorney for legal advice? Please be careful and make sure you have the facts. It may not be the best idea fir you to contact her L directly unless you and W have some agreement. My L made it clear that we could both use him, but it was ME that he was obligated to work for. W had to get own legal advice. Good luck
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14