It has been over 2 years now since my separation. Not sure if it’s the holidays or a reminder of how challenging my December was two years ago but it is still hard not to think about how good our family could have been. I shall not dwell in fiction :-)

My currently reality is that overall I am doing well. My main struggle is agreeing on a parental plan that allows me have more time with my children. She refuses to discuss anything in regards with me having more time with my boys.. Going to court is my only option. Both lawyers agree she is being unreasonable! Never thought I would hear that one.

Achieved another goal and completed a 5k run! Sure I was 427th out of 1200 but I did it! First medal I received since high school. Lol. Keeping busy with home improvements and repairs… discovered every project takes twice as long as projected and double the cost!

Keep working on yourselves and best wishes with this holiday season!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.