Didn't realize my last thread locked. Above is a link to the previous thread. The first post in this thread is the perfect time to say that I got what I think is the final draft of our dissolution yesterday. We had agreed to almost everything in our S but WAW changed her tune when she had the papers drawn up. I have spent the last 6 weeks fighting 3 big issues. 1) I wanted 90 days from the dissolution to pay her for her equity. I needed this time to sell investment properties. She nixed that and I have to pay her the day the judge bangs the gavel. 2) She agreed to live in the school district until the boys graduated. She balked on this one and we finally ended up settling on a clause that said the boys were to finish school in the district they are in. Negotiating this issue is when she threatened to just file for divorce, numerous times. If she were to move away there would be no way to co-parent. I would give every last cent to my name to keep the right to have my boys half the time. 3) Last and least important we initially agreed that cs would not be handled through the child support enforcment agency and that I would pay her half of the boys ins. cost, half of their school lunches and half of their clothing. She balked at this one too and demanded it go through CSEA. I relented easily on this one and its going to cost me a $24 a month processing fee. However, CS is now locked at a set amount, and the court is giving up jurisdiction so its locked at that amount for the next 8 years for s10. When insurance costs go up and inflation starts adding up I will not be on the hook.
I could not care less about the money or the CS but the clause in the papers stating the boys had to finish school in this district was a huge issue for me. It is now in writing that she can't pack up and move away and end our 50-50 time split with the boys.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
