I'm sorry about your sitch, nit. I would say there's still a chance for R even if the D goes through--I think 25 would agree--but it'll take a lot of work. That's the hope for my sitch.
I'm okay with the process going slow, too, but sometimes I just want to get this limbo over. And I feel like my W won't be open to any sort of R until she gets her D, as weird as that may sound.
I just don't know what to do with the letter that she wrote me on 8/27/14 pleading with me to give her another chance, apologizing for her bad things, and wanting to grow a strong family with me for our kids. She said she had a wake-up call, and yet 1.5 months later she was gone. So very weird.
Every day my heart breaks for my boys who don't deserve this.
Me: 29 W: 29 S: 7 S: 4 M: 8 BD 10/15/14 (Order of Protection) D filed 10/14 Letting God change my life. Doing the hard work to be the H my W always needed and to be the father my children deserve.