You are so right on all of that. Absolutely. Thanks for the input, the perspective helps.

Soldiering on today. The roads are REALLY icy and horrible; it's rainy and cold enough to make a lot of hazardous road conditions, but not snow. Fingers crossed it doesn't end up doing so.

Been thinking about Mr. Bond's --the living legend-- sitch, how I've heard his wife wouldn't talk to him for 3 years but with his patience, they ended up piecing. In that manner, I need to remind myself over and over that I don't know squat; I make a lot of assumptions about where H is and what's going to happen, but the future can play out in ways that NONE of us ever thought of. In that, there has to be some small shred of hopefulness.

Move forward for me for now, and let whatever happens happen.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies