Wow, I can totally relate to what you're saying. My H recently looked at pictures of himself from before S3 was born and said he's aged so much because of the way I behaved after we had our first baby. What? He also is unhappy with his career and has taken so much of his frustration with work out on me. And I have the SAME problem when I talk to my H about anything regarding our R, it's like he suddenly wants to run out and plan the divorce. I've learned to just not even approach the subject with him anymore and just keep our conversations light and casual, like I would a neighbor (though even the neighbor calls and checks on us more than H! LOL!). Every relationship talk I've had with H since BD and especially since he's left has left me broken, and yes, also at times on the floor. Hang in there. Trust me, I know what you must be feeling right now.
Me: 38 H: 43 Kids: 2,4 T10 M6 BD: 1/14 11/14: H moves out
