Ganb8te, it sounds like your H and mine have some similarities. Quiet types, introverted a little? Having a crisis maybe?
Yep, quiet, pretty introverted, very private and beautifully sensitive. Probably with a bit of depression thrown in to the mix in the last 18 months (back injury -> kept him away from his usual activities outside work).
I had a laugh as I came back from yoga last night. I was envisioning sending a text o H saying "Meet me at [address] at 7pm sharp. Look smart." I wonder if it would make him curious enough to come out and play? It would certainly address the "wants more fun/spontaneity" comment. Or what about "If there's any part of you that wants to stay married, meet me at the midway point on the Bridge at 3pm Saturday." Then we'd hug and make up. Worked for Miranda and Steve…
(Don't worry folks. NOT GOING TO DO IT.)
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
