"Stop focusing on her. Especially stop focusing on her infidelity. What you focus on, grows."

Crap! You are so right!

"Man, you have a fertile imagination. Stop it!
Just because she's doing jello shots with someone doesn't mean she sleeping with him.

And are you snooping? Stop it! It does you no good."

I know. It get's me deep into trouble every single time.

"If all the time you spent worrying about what your WAW is up to was spend detached and improving yourself to be a better man, then you'd be doing better.

Like others have said, she'll do what she wants and you have no control over that so let it go. Be zen about it.

Focus on yourself. (Oh and on your kids)"

I'm so ready.


New thread here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2515400&#Post2515400

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3