Hi Mahhhty, not much advice for you, just wanted to stop by and show my support.

Regarding your vacation, unfortunately in everyday life we have too much stress, kids, jobs, finances, household chores. On vacation we are able to relax and I guess are much more attractive to spouses, I think it's natural. My H has told me in the past that he liked me more when we were on vacation. If only we could live on vacation!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since