UC,

Originally Posted By: UpperCu
Wonka, please teach me how to think like you.


Not sure about that as I am a woman and you're a man....not sure if I can teach a caveman how to think like me. wink grin

All kidding aside....

Originally Posted By: UpperCu
I'm feeling validated by your simple comment right now. smile


It wasn't hard at all because I HAVE BEEN exactly where you are right now and I do remember that feeling all too well. It wasn't how I think, but how I felt in the first stages when Ms. Wonka left. Not the most pleasant feeling in the world for sure. shudder

In my case, I was away at my office all day when Ms. Wonka and presumably her family & the OW packed up the furniture at our marital home. No way in hell was I gonna hang around and see that unfold.

After I arrived back home at the end of my workday, I was greeted by my late beloved dog and I crashed into the bed wracked with sobs after walking through an almost half empty home.

Never want to live through that kind of trauma again.