Pilot it sounds like you are at peace with your decision. I believe you know when you have had enough of this crazyness. I am wondering what will be going on in your waw's mind when she gets the papers. My guess is she will in a panic! She has been in control and she no longer will be. I know you have two great boys that you will do a great job raising. She has done some serious damage and may not know how to make sense of what she has done to them, you, and mostly herself. I would not be surprised if she does a 180. You know you always want what you can't have. I hope if you still have some love for her deep down you would keep a little window open for her to come back. I know it would be extremely difficult for both of you, but it might be the best for you and your family. Take care buddy
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