My W is living with her Grandmother, although I am not supposed to know this. D complaint was filed back in April. W asked for Spousal support in June. W stayed in M home till end of Sept.
We have exchanged settlement proposals and her L thinks we are too far apart to reach an agreement so they want to break off negotations till the 2 year S date(theirs).
From what OMW says it has been going on Since Feb 2014. I think it has been a PA for 14 months and a EA since our S in June 2013.
I was real careful with what info I shared with OMW. I didn't want to divulve too much to her.
I have only emailed my W twice and that was in last 10 days and was just about paying bills for the last month she was living here. Other than that she emailed me twice in Oct and that is the extent of our contact in 2 1/2 months.
IMHO, My W had a plan She wanted OM to move out of OMW house so they could move in together. She has been trying to find OM a job since July. So far to no avail. W waited 2 months to move out after OM did. Not sure why.
OMW tells me that OM is at the house everyday and they are still intimate on occasion. He is sleeping at a friends house at night.
Maybe that is why my W is living with Grandma because those plans haven't work the way she planned.
OMW said she wished she had come to me earlier but didn't in the 3 confrontations they had OMW said W was arrogant when they were alone but when OM was there she was real nervous like a jealous school girl. and would watch them talk alone peeking through windows
OM has continued to lie to OMW about any A and says to just mind her business. They have 2 children together 11 and younger and OMW just wants her family back and the lies to stop.
OM is just 1 year younger than I am, not that that makes any difference but I always thought W thought I was too old to start a family.
W mentioned back in July that she no longer wanted children with anybody. I believe this do to the fact that OM already has a family and doesn't want any more kids.
Knowing my W she is only saying she doesn't want kids because of OM lack of interest in any new ones. But deep down she wants Children just like for the longest time she wanted them with me but I was selfish.
I can fill in any other questions you may have. Thanks Again!!
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
