a young marriage in trouble

[Vanilla]

Ins

If your W has the blues, is that anything to do with the baby?

Did you leave her alone with the baby when you went out?

Please can you put an order on the events for us.

Accept from me, no one can make another anxious or depressed. That is their way of reacting and W is wholly responsible for her reactions. You and W are separate individuals and each of you is responsible for themselves.

As for the other items you mention, of course they have a bearing on the environment and your M. They are an influence, but W wayward behaviour is her choice, she could have chosen to work with you to resolve this.
My concern is that having the baby and the hormonal changes may play a part so I need more details and can you be as specific as possible.
Regards
Vanilla