I don't think you received good advice about mc...... it needs to be addressed, if you pretend like the affair didn't happen you just bury the anger.

I strongly suggest you find a good mc that has a background in solution based therapy.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction