Thank you, rd... it does help to know that I am not alone, and to be able to bounce ideas around with others... and although I don't know what the hell I am doing (LOL), I would be happy to offer you any emotional support that I can any time you are in need of it or just want to chat. Where in Ireland do you live?
t-mom, hang in there. I know it's tough to not get the responses that you are hoping for here - it does happen eventually, keep posting often and you will catch someones ear (eye).
I also know it is tough to reach the level of detachment that you need for yourself while living with him. I've been trying for months to get this. Just as I feel like I'm there, some level of normal life happens and it brings it crumbling down again. I am not a very good example of what to do, but I'm still here (wish I was on an upswing).
I go through times that I want to quit it all and start over too - then I think about what I value.
What are you doing for yourself to keep your PMA up? How about your son - any extra activities with him - how is he reacting to this?
Keep up the fight!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
I've decided to just dive into LRT.... I've been half-assing it because I couldn't decide if I truly was there. I am really not all that tech savvy and these threads and everything here is not yet familiar to me. Thanks for the kind words!
