Thank you jim0987 and LisaB! Much to say but I'm at work with a client. Also, I think Wonka just replied to this on HPoirot's thread.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
HP,
I am firmly on Sandi's side on this one:
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
Well, I may get switches in my Christmas stockings for saying this, but I would just have to say, "Sorry, too little too late". Then walk away. That is a truth dart that really needs to penetrate.
You see, this is just a taste she will need to experience. She has to see for herself that you are through with her. You have decided you won't take whatever crumbs she decides to leave for you. She needs to see what it must have been like for you. (Only she can't really feel the same as you did.) That is why it is important that you don't cave while she's applying this pressure.
That ^^ is the crux of the whole matter: not accepting crumbs from WAW. I hope every LBH reads this and lets that sink in in their wet noodle minds. HP, no it will signal the death knell of the M. Instead, it will signal the death knell of the Wet Noodle HP and show your W that you mean business when it comes to your boundaries.
This ^^ answers your earlier questions on what you are doing wrong. Exactly.
Can you do this with your W? Pull back and stop acting like a slobbering puppy around her.
