Yeah, I think people are right about the casual thing. Like if you have been initiating tons of contacts and then getting a brush off- maybe it's time for W to initiate the next one. Pulling back slightly- like missing a call, or waiting longer than usual to return it kind of thing...

Like an overwatered plant- needs to soak up your feeding first, before it wants/needs more... When temps start to warm, it will start to need more water too!


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