Have to agree with them. Make yourself less accessible. Maybe go somewhere for a day or two. Don't go by the shop all the time. Don't call for awhile. But I would not express you're hurt. "Act as if."
Hang in. Do for you. You would not call one of your friends everyday or go by his house. If he called, you might talk or go out or say, "Hey, I'm busy, call you later." Treat her like the friend.
