I got 99 problems but an MLCer ain't one!

[daring]

Thanks FY- you are right- I will be fine no matter what.

Feeling much better today- I slept in and caught up on much needed sleep. Then went to pay moms rent and get her mail. Came to check on her at rehab and she's hanging in there. Memory still terrible but the therapists and docs are awesome. If she's going to get better they will make it happen.
Doesn't hurt for me to be a doc in this health system either- the CEO for the rehab was at my hospital for awhile so I know him well and he's checking in on her. Makes me feel good to have caring admin to work with.

As far as H- I called this morning b/c I'm about to renew benefits and he's been on my insurance. I asked if he'd likd me to keep him in until he gets a job. ( he interviewed this morning with a good prospect, also said at this point he might just work at Home Depot- he has to figure something out). He said no- he thinks he'll have a job by Jan 1st. I asked if he was sure since it can't be renewed once enrollment closes and he said yes he will figure it out. He's trying very hard to be independent in a good way I think- part of his growing up process I guess.
I asked if he could be at my house Thurs when they install the new hot water heaters since I will be at work and he said yes.
Sometimes I feel bad that I'm asking him to do some of these things, like I'm using him and should just figure it out, but I really need the help and he seems to feel good when he can help so I'll just monitor.

One day at a time.....