New Here and need help

[Cathy54]

Thanks for the reply...
I have been GAL...
Going to the gym several times a week, went to lunch and movie with girl friends Saturday and to dinner with 3 married couples solo on Sunday... Just said H couldn't make it here this weekend.
He called last night. We talked, but he didn't say anything about where the thinking led him. He originally said he was stopping at his sister's place, but that didn't work out with her... so am wondering if he was really alone. I didn't ask.
Not sure how much to detach and what that would look like??
He will be here this weekend and then back the following weekend for 2 weeks for the holidays during which time we will be spending time with family and friends.
He ordered a dog bed last night on Amazon... he had been seeing someone with a dog and he had it sent to his condo not to my (our) house.
I hate this....