Well its been about 7 months since BD and I have been Dbing for 5 month, I've seen lots of positive movement baby steps or is it just cake eating I just don't know,I know I'm in a better position than most as she has given me practically unlimited amount of time I can spend with her, just turn up when ever you want her words, but I don't know if I should spend more time with her to create a stronger bond or less time to make her miss me, it certainly is a marathon this dbing