Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2

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Intel shows that W has NOT been in contact with OM, but that she has been thinking about him A LOT since she moved out. Seems like she is dealing with jealousy - she spends as much time looking up OM's girlfriend as she does looking up OM.

It appears I have also at least popped in her mind a few times the past week. She hasn't initiated any contact in the past week.

There could be other OMs, but I don't think so. The way she is obsessing about OM, I think I would be able to decipher a new OP.

I have a meeting scheduled with W and a mediator this week. I am thinking of canceling and rescheduling a solo visit without W. The mediator is a therapist and all I'm really wanting to meet with him about is to make sure we aren't overlooking anything major in the SA before taking it to the atty. Basically I want another unbiased set of eyes on our sitch before moving forward. Canceling could give me more info on where W is at and put the ball back in her court to initiate contact if she so desires. Thoughts?