Well - I'd say do A or B and don't give another thought about the affect on H.
I second this one!
And, I, too, am glad you had a good weekend.
Things will be different a year from now, so you can make this up as you go. That way, nothing will be a knee jerk reaction to anything he does/doesn't do or says/doesn't say.
After all, how many of us know how we'll fee about anything in a year?
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
