Quote: I've been trying to link her + interactions with me and the timing of which relative to the time of month (PMS as she has mentioned she is especially emotional then),
If the lighting and furniture is dangerous in a WAW's mind, I can't even begin to imagine what it's like in their ovaries.
Seattle, seriously, I think your doing a great job of trying to understand things, but maybe you need a break as much as your W. Is it possible for you to take a four-day excursion somewhere with lots of things to do and keep you occupied. Your processing so much informaiton right now, I think you may need to take a step back for YOU, never mind your wife. This can give you renewed energy and purpose in developing and carrying out your strategic plan. Rememeber, time is your friend and patience is golden.