Ss, get a little box and label it H. Put it near the door or something. Tell him that is where you suggest he put his stuff when he is in your home. You can't control his behavior. But you do not have to get worked up over it, right? He's freaking out asking you where stuff is because he knows you'll jump to help. Just....don't. "I'm sorry, I don't know where that is. If I happen to see it I'll let you know." And go on your merry way. Don't enable his behavior. And don't let it get to you!
