Did I see some hugging going on here earlier? *Blink* Maybe it was just my imagination?
Question for you: Does your W ONLY bring up the D papers while you are at work?
While I agree that discussing this stuff at work would mean you are *INDOLENT* and not appropriate work convo, if you do this, you're going to have to give her some alternates of choice when you are willing to discuss stuff with her.
Maybe you can borrow something we do in sales? Give her 3 options, put the time slot that benefits you the most in the middle and see what happens?
That way, you're not appearing as though anytime will work--seeming to alleviate the availability issue.
If she won't agree to any of your times, then there is something else at work here. Let's not speculate until you feel a little more in control.
So, what are you doing to jumpstart your own life? What can you do to make yourself feel like you're driving your own ship, not waiting for her next call to tell you what you're doing?
You're not a doormat, Seattle (doormats do not wear spandex uniforms). But I think you're seeing now that being as available isn't good for you.
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
