Quote: She has taken full advantage of my availability and I'm beginning to feel like a doormat.
This is the danger of wanting to be there for her all the time. You want to do most anything, but you can't bud! This is a major light bulb here.
Renew had a very interesting observation too. Not only do our spouses have a "advantageous" time to do R talk, so do we. Unfortunately, the aliens don't care whether you are feeling good or not. They just blurt it out. It is up to you to express when is a good time to talk, without being condescending (sp?).
Does she come in to your work and talk R talk, or is it over the phone or through email?
You know, we have feelings too. Lets not ignore them, it makes us better people. Its the way we express them that counts.
Your doing great there seattle. keep up the great DBing!
Triple J
Things were different then. All is different now. I tried to explain, somehow..........
Eddie Vedder (Pearl Jam)
