In my case, I'm pretty sure what's happening now to gg is how h treated his w1. I pretty much think she thought they were working on the m while separated and he picked up her friend. Then traded Friend for me.

I saw her buy expensive gifts of 1k, I saw her have dinner with us as a family I saw him let her live in his house while he took a trip. It's all craze now I look back. I think she tryed to db in a way. She never went dark she chased, threatened suicide, then dated a married bloke she often openly talked at the dinner table with us of meeting another man. Etc.

She hasn't really had a long term r, few flings and now a no hoper she lives with if h is to be believed, she wants out of the house.

Did any of that work for her?
No not really, in fact most of the way she behaved blew up In her face. He never really thought of her as gone. He never thought or saw her change.

After 11 years the best he could come up with was, wow she grew up and matured slightly. After 5 years or so of nc. H still resents her dating tho. What's with that?

Last edited by Ggrass; 12/08/14 12:47 PM.
M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26