Ganb8te 2 - WAH - lost in translation

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Thanks, Ggrass. He's REALLY avoidant and stubborn. I described a little of this here. I think it will take a lot for him to overcome this and consider the alternative to D. Although I have to say that I'm the only person who used that word (back at BD, before finding DB) and he replied with "I didn't say that".

I got no spew at BD. What I got was "I don't know who I am", "I want more fun/spontaneity/passion," "wants to date others", "I don't know what the outcome will be". My take is that he's having a personal crisis, possibly with an OW thrown in (denied at BD, haven't snooped since), but with the limited interaction and few mutual friends I'm left only to my initial observations 6 months ago and a couple of interactions since. I do think he is getting less responsive to emails/texts. Which is why I am questioning whether being dark is not working or if it hasn't been long enough.