Seattle, be patient with her. Let her have a little space. The two of you seem to be having some really good interaction--just try to let it unfold at her pace more than yours, don't push too hard. Be available to her, don't go dark or disappear, but don't contact her as often as you feel the need.
Quote: ...it sounds as if the dog is a major player in her life right now, because if the dog is not there, she is truly alone. She may her new friends, but the dog is her love right now.