Of course my mind is spinning- oh he prob feels bad or uncomfortable b/c he's about to dump the D papers on me, or b/c he doesn't really care about me, or b/c we are doing Christmas decorating tonight ( though the kids tell me he has a tree too).
I highly doubt he is about to dump papers on you. But so what if he is? You already know you'll be ok, right?
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I texted an hour or so after he left " Thank you for your help today. I apologize if I made you upset- I don't know what other answer to give when you ask if I'll be ok- fine is pretty much the only choice I have. "
I know I probably shouldn't have- but I just couldn't leave it alone. He hasn't responded. Prob won't.
I don't think this was a mistake at all. You spoke from your heart, just like your husband has been doing. Besides, no one incident is going to make or break your marriage anyway.
Continue to be strong, daring. You got this.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
