Lorilai and Lost, thanks for stopping by! Maybell, I don't know how you juggle three kids coming at you at once. You're my hero!!
And maybell, you're right. I guess I'll have to keep reading the novel to see how it ends. Am I allowed to kill off the husband character? I don't mean kill him for real, jeez, I just mean proverbially, in this novel I'm writing where I don't know how it ends yet.
Trying to ignore H is an option, though it not sure if it'll backfire. He hates being ignored, a trigger from his childhood. I don't understand why I'm responsible for locating his things. I've tried removing myself from that co-dependence saying his stuff is his responsibility but he asks anyway and always at the most chaotic times I'm supposed to locate his phone, wallet, that one piece of paper he just put down right here... Man, it drives me insane!!
Then when he leaves I'm looking all over the place for this remote, that remote, the phone charger, D's spelling word list, my checkbook... It's frustrating but the MOST frustrating part about it is his inability to recognize the craziness of it and back the eff off and take on some accountability for your own chit, dude!!
Lost, yes my daughter is crazy smart. It's a little unnerving sometimes. It's a true blessing and she's awesome but she's tough and VERY difficult, too.
I really appreciate the support guys. I've been feeling like I've been flying solo lately. I forget that I just need to ask for help and it arrives. Kind of like the Bat Signal. If only I know what uR's bat signal looked like...
