^ I should note that I'm not advocating how this article was worded, nor that this is in any way the "right" way to be or that there's even a right or wrong thing (darn edit timeframes!!) Everyone's going to have people that are the right fit for them and that will look differently for everyone. That was just a good summary of how I'm feeling lately in terms of who I am and wanting to be more firm on my opinions/boundaries, and it's too bad that didn't fit with what H was looking for.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
