No advice, just my experience. I don't speak to my kids at all when they are with their mom and vice versa (we alternate weeks). They don't seem to mind at all. I know a friend who separated when his kids were 4 and 2 (now 10 and 8) and they almost never call and when they do, the kids don't like it because they miss the other parent even more.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
