Also, every night (for the most part) the person without the kids calls the one with the kids to say goodnight. Is this a good idea? Should I try to discontinue this? My kids are D4 & S2. So I think its really important for them to hear/talk to the other parent, but I'm not sure how it's affecting my path. I try to talk only about the kids. I don't ask questions about her, and I keep my answers short.
I'm trying to go dark, so I believe this is a good idea from that perspective. However, I don't want to influence the kids relationship with their mother, unfortunately they are caught in the middle and definitely miss her at home. Thoughts?
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
