Picked up S7 from W house and made small talk with W, she asked questions about my night out and she told me something funny that S7 did and I laughed and said god knows what he will be like when he is a teenager, and she said jokingly that is when he comes to live with you, it sort of knocked me a bit I thought I was making good progress but obviously she still can't see a future or am I reading to much into that comment?
Well let's talk about it. You tell how you measure your progress. What determines you are making good or poor progress?
Apparently if she can make one statement (in a joking way,,,but maybe hitting to close to reality) and it completely pulls the rug out from under you, you must be measuring your progress by her and if she ever makes on reference that implies the two of you won't be together in the future........you give yourself a failing grade.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
