hey Seattle! This sounds like you're doing all the right stuff.

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I now pay full attention to her and turn towards all of her communication bids (John Gottman) and make good eye contact. My eye contact could be more relaxed which is what I'm working on.




Perfect.

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Quick action shows her concern and is a 180 for me. We shared a couple of inside jokes and stuff only we connect with. Said bye bye in our voice.




Great 180! Also v. good on the inside jokes. You're connecting, connecting, connecting.

Get your waterproof boots on... cause that glacier's going to start melting, my friend.

wonder