afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

I saw my IMC counselor this Morning. I went over the last months goings on and She was surprised about the OMW coming to see me. I also showed my Counselor the list that I found from my W

She said it is very helpful to have it because it shows my W perception of our M. The things she saw in the list were everything that her and I have tackled over the last 18 months and it is good that I have done this without the benefit of seeing the list.

She says the story of our separation is still unfolding to some extent and by me doing what I have been doing it puts me in a good place no matter what happens.

We ran out of time so I didn't get ask her what I should do now. Do I attempt to contact my W and ask her about this list? Do I tell her that the OMW has been to see me? I think it was 25 or Sandi2 that said "sometimes the best action is no action at all" I apologize if it was another Vet that said this but now I am a bit confused on my next step.

Any help is welcomed