Hey Mozza! I know Wonka will have a better reply for you but I will say that you don't need to be cold and distant. You need to show WAW that she can't have you be fun and friendly unless she gives up OM and tries to work on the relationship with you.
That means being polite but distant. No hugs and kisses. For example, if she tries to hug you, let her but don't really reciprocate. If she gives you her cheek to kiss, ignore it. Let her chase you.
Sure she might get angry and hurt and say "Mozza you don't want to hug me? See that is why we are not together, you are so distant! blah blah blah" To which you quietly and calmly respond "W, we are separated and you have a boyfriend. I don't want to hug and kiss you while you are with another man." or something like that. I'm not a vet so I don't know exactly what to say but you get the idea...
And jim,
Originally Posted By: jim0987
I dont know anyone who has fallen for the person that pays them no attention. guess thats why they say this is counter intuitive
people fall for the person who ignores them all the time!!! That is so common! Ever heard "people always want what they can't have"?
