Of course I'm not ok with either. It tortures me that she's with someone else. I hate the two options in front of me: either she's gone for good, or she comes back after taking this "romantic holiday".
So you're saying I need to be cold and distant with her? No niceties and banter, no touching, etc.? Won't she just say "Mozza is a jerk" and hate me for the rest of our lives? It seems like her OM was quite nice to her when he stole her from my M. How do we get to "I want to be with Mozza" with this strategy?
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
