OMG--Labug you're so right! Can I take that advice even though it's not on my thread? I have the same T-shirt, several of them in fact, and yes, they weren't worth the price. I too learned to be controlling as a child in order to stay safe, then brought that into adulthood, where it doesn't work.
Me: 38 H: 43 Kids: 2,4 T10 M6 BD: 1/14 11/14: H moves out
