Hey Seattle-
I agree with the others, and with renew. She is sharing a lot more with you lately, no doubt. So continue being her best friend and treating her like a best friend would. You probably wouldn't analyze everything a best freind said or did, so try to take that perspective. Now, this coming from me where over on my thread I am analyzing the hell out of H's actions the last few days! Definitely easier said than done...

Also, I like how you took the advice of one of the posters on your thread to mention that you are feeling better now that you're not drinking and why, etc. This is great!! Reinforces/Helps her to see that you did this for you, not her. Good!!